"WHAT GOD HAS JOINED TOGETHER..."

“The Pharisees asked Jesus if it was lawful to divorce from their wives,
He asked them: What did Moses said about this? And they answered that it was all right, as long as they gave her a bill of divorcement to put her away.
Jesus told them:For the hardness of your hearts he wrote you this precept, but from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female, for this cause, shall a man leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife, and they shall be one flesh, so they are not two, but one flesh .Therefore...
What God had join together, let no man put asunder” Mark Chapter 10.

“DIVORCE”
When we met our couple, everything was nice and sweet, but as the time
Goes by, our defects start to show more and more and the love we said
we felt, little by little, started to melt!
We begin rejecting each other instead of increasing our love a lot more!
Love in a couple is like watering a plant, when we do it regularly, the plant grows up, shines like the sun, and becomes beautiful! But when we stop taking care of it, its leaves begin to fall, it withers, and finally dies!
It is our fault of course!
But we try to blame somebody else for our lack of love!
Hate! In one word is TO HURT!
Hurt the feelings of people awaking in them:Bitterness, pain and tears!
LOVE, being the opposite of hate, awakes the feeling of HAPPINESS!
But,love in our marriage does not exist anymore!We don’t love each other!
I understand! I understand! But look: Jesus Christ said:
“There is more happiness in giving than in receiving!” That means that
in the precise moment we give happiness, immediately, we receive it!
If we are not receiving love from our spouse, it is because we are not giving it to them! Do you understand?
On the other hand: In the instant we give somebody an act of hate.. ..
It hurt us right away! So, why do we do it?
To love is to give, without expecting anything in return, however,
Hate or Love, fructifies and return to us with interests!
When we get married, we compromise to unite ourselves into one soul!
Now we divided and became two again, what ever happen to us?
Very simple: The plant of love we had, occupied the best place in our
home, little by little we were pushing it out of the house and now
it is standing next to the garbage cans where it’s dying!
But it is still time to rescue it, taking care of it, as we use to do before,so it could recover its strength and beauty and it can begin to produce the fruits we use to enjoy before with so much love!
Without even notice it, we put a tree of hate in the place where our plant
of love where, we must cut if from the roots and trash can it so it cannot
come back! And put our plant of love where it belongs! In our heart!

GIVING LOVE WITHOUT EXPECTING SOMETHING IN RETURN,
IS THE PERFECT “FERTILIZER” FOR OUR LOVE PLANT!
THE MORE SATISFYING LOVE IS NOT THE ONE WE RECEIVE,
BUT THE ONE WE GIVE!

GLORY TO THE LORD!

José Salazar
S. de C.